I am always amazed by the toys that are constantly coming out for young children. Parents feel the pressure to keep up by getting their child the latest thing that will help them be the smartest child. Commercials for educational toys promise to make our children the best and brightest. As I look at these things I find myself asking "How did children do anything before technology?" Children learn best through play, interactions and experience. Children love to explore. Sophia is only 16 weeks old but she is already exploring her world. She is always watching our facial expressions and taking in every thing around her. I love watching her face as she observes something new. Today we went for a walk at the park. I loved seeing her eyes squint as she was out and about in the sun (living in Ohio, this is a rare thing this time of year). Do I need to show her books of the sun for her to understand what it is? No! She was able to experience it first hand today. Sure, she doesnt know the word but that will come. As we walked I explained to her that the sun was shining and as she continues to be exposed to the sunshine, she will know what it is.
A few weeks ago we discovered our thumb. That is currently our favorite form of entertainment. We dont need the fancy pacifier or the fancy teething rings or toys. Sophia is content with her thumb. So often I think we forget that children dont need the most impressive toys to have fun. They need us to interact and play with them. How many times have your heard it said "dont buy expensive gifts, just give them the box"? Children are curious and easily amused by things that are going on around them. We take that creativity away when we do not allow them opportunties to explore the natural wonders of their world.
This is a great post. I couldn't agree more on the importance of time with people and experiences. Simplify! So many things are marketed as necessities but there is no substitute for time.
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